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The Young Widower's Handbook: A Novel
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“Funny, sad, and smart . . . Part wacky road novel, part romantic comedy, McAllister's debut flies along yet reaches deep.” —Stewart O'Nan, author of West of Sunset
For Hunter Cady, meeting Kaitlyn is the greatest thing that has ever happened to him. Whereas he had spent most of his days accomplishing very little, now his life has a purpose. Smart, funny, and one of a kind, Kait is somehow charmed by Hunter’s awkwardness and droll humor, and her love gives him reason to want to be a better man.
And then, suddenly, Kait is gone, her death as unexpected as the happiness she had brought to Hunter. Numb with grief, he stumbles forward in the only way he knows how: by running away. He heads due west from his Philadelphia home, taking Kait’s ashes with him.
Kait and Hunter had always meant to travel. Now, with no real plan in mind, Hunter is swept into the adventures of fellow travelers on the road, among them a renegade Renaissance Faire worker; a boisterous yet sympathetic troop of bachelorettes; a Midwest couple and Elvis, their pet parrot; and an older man on an endless cross-country journey in search of a wife who walked out on him many years before. Along the way readers get glimpses of Hunter and Kait’s lovely, flawed, and very real marriage, and the strength Hunter draws from it, even when contemplating a future without it. And each encounter, in its own peculiar way, teaches him what it means to be a husband and what it takes to be a man.
Written in the spirit of Jonathan Tropper and Matthew Quick, with poignant insight and wry humor, The Young Widower’s Handbook is a testament to the enduring power of love.
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For Hunter Cady, meeting Kaitlyn is the greatest thing that has ever happened to him. Whereas he had spent most of his days accomplishing very little, now his life has a purpose. Smart, funny, and one of a kind, Kait is somehow charmed by Hunter’s awkwardness and droll humor, and her love gives him reason to want to be a better man.
And then, suddenly, Kait is gone, her death as unexpected as the happiness she had brought to Hunter. Numb with grief, he stumbles forward in the only way he knows how: by running away. He heads due west from his Philadelphia home, taking Kait’s ashes with him.
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“Funny, sad, and smart . . . Part wacky road novel, part romantic comedy, McAllister's debut flies along yet reaches deep.” —Stewart O'Nan, author of West of Sunset
For Hunter Cady, meeting Kaitlyn is the greatest thing that has ever happened to him. Whereas he had spent most of his days accomplishing very little, now his life has a purpose. Smart, funny, and one of a kind, Kait is somehow charmed by Hunter’s awkwardness and droll humor, and her love gives him reason to want to be a better man.
And then, suddenly, Kait is gone, her death as unexpected as the happiness she had brought to Hunter. Numb with grief, he stumbles forward in the only way he knows how: by running away. He heads due west from his Philadelphia home, taking Kait’s ashes with him.
Kait and Hunter had always meant to travel. Now, with no real plan in mind, Hunter is swept into the adventures of fellow travelers on the road, among them a renegade Renaissance Faire worker; a boisterous yet sympathetic troop of bachelorettes; a Midwest couple and Elvis, their pet parrot; and an older man on an endless cross-country journey in search of a wife who walked out on him many years before. Along the way readers get glimpses of Hunter and Kait’s lovely, flawed, and very real marriage, and the strength Hunter draws from it, even when contemplating a future without it. And each encounter, in its own peculiar way, teaches him what it means to be a husband and what it takes to be a man.
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        December 19, 2016
        McAllister writes with heartfelt emotion about the sudden death of a spouse in this remarkable debut novel. Hunter Cady, an immature 29—his life filled with such attempts at self-improvement as “the Month of No Hot Dogs,” and “the Month of Being Romantic”—spends an inordinate amount of time with his wife, Kait, planning for all the wonderful trips they will someday take. He has the shock of his life when she suddenly dies because of a ruptured fallopian tube from an ectopic pregnancy that they had no knowledge of. Nearly catatonic with grief, he finally takes his wife’s’ ashes with him on the road trip they never took. Along the way readers learn about Hunter’s no-nonsense father and New Age mother. He has a comical and nearly tragic experience at a renaissance fair, and at one point he joins an older man in search of the wife who left him years ago. Hunter’s poignant realizations about what his wife meant to him, intermingled with his humorous and spot-on views of the people and places he encounters, as well as how he uses social media to grieve, bring him to the fitting conclusion that even beyond the grave, Kait helps him become the man he always wanted to be for her.

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        November 1, 2016

        Acclaimed nonfiction writer and editor of Barrelhouse magazine McAllister's first novel features the socially awkward twentysomething Hunter, who lives with his parents and works a dead-end job at a car rental agency until he meets the beautiful, funny, organized Kaitlyn Cady, who helps him get his life in order. After only a few years of blissful matrimony, she drops dead. As if this wasn't bad enough, it was an ectopic pregnancy that killed her. Hunter deals with the extended family and funeral in the ways you would expect a sarcastic man-child to, and when they ask to scatter her ashes, he instead disappears with them. He drives around the country looking for a suitable final resting place for his young bride. On his journey he flashes back to scenes from their marriage. The narration alternates pointlessly among second and third person, and the characters are never given enough depth for you really to feel for them. The strange people Hunter runs into on his road trip provide brief humor in an otherwise overly sentimental novel. VERDICT While this work may be of interest to readers who like deep studies of marriages and grief, others may find it best suited for a Lifetime movie adaptation. [See Prepub Alert, 8/8/16.]--Kate Gray, Boston P.L., MA

        Copyright 2016 School Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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        November 1, 2016
        Twenty-nine-year-old Hunter Cady, who describes himself as "actually about fifteen when it comes to real life experience," finds in Kait, his wife, a person who "anchored him to the world."They are in love and finding their way in the world together. And then she's dead. This novel is the story of Hunter's first months without Kait. In shock and unable to deal with his grief, Hunter takes Kait's ashes on a road trip, alarming his parents and angering Kait's mother and brothers. He has little plan, and what plan he has goes awry several times. He meets people and sometimes that goes really poorly, sometimes really well. It's darkly humorous either way. The chapters alternate between second-person narrative ("When you dream you never see her. You only dream about being lost in a cavernous house and searching for her") and third-person ("The only thing in his life he'd ever fully committed to was loving her, which he tried to demonstrate via the completion of what some people call the little things."). This can be jarring but seems in line with the chaotic emotions Hunter is experiencing. The story resolves nicely without tying up every loose end, leaving room for readers to think about what Hunter's life will be like. A quirky, well-told fiction debut from McAllister (Bury Me in My Jersey: A Memoir of My Father, Football, and Philly, 2010) that doesn't cover any new ground in exploring the sudden loss of a spouse but covers it differently.

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        February 1, 2017
        Hunter Cady has always been a bit . . . unfocused. He's 29, and his singular accomplishment so far has been to marry the lovely Kait, who is clever, confident, and full of direction. When Kait dies unexpectedly, Hunter is left completely unmoored. Then, after Kait's boorish family descends and demands her remains, Hunter doesn't know what else to do except run away. With the aid of the $750,000 life-insurance policy Kait was smart enough to take out, Hunter embarks, with Kait's ashes as his traveling companion, on a crazy cross-country trip, documenting their adventures on Facebook. Among other things, he almost loses her at a Renaissance faire; does lose her (but recovers her the next day) when he's unwittingly roped into a bachelorette party; and gives his father, Jack, the slip, after Jack tracks him down at a hotel in Oklahoma. McAllister's debut novel is at turns funny and touching, particularly in the vignettes sandwiched between the narrative, which delve into Hunter's thoughts and feelings about his marriage and his wife. Expect comparisons to Jonathan Tropper and Nick Hornby.(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2017, American Library Association.)

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