Group: How One Therapist and a Circle of Strangers Saved My Life
(Adobe EPUB eBook, Kindle Book, OverDrive Read)
The refreshingly original and "startlingly hopeful" (Lisa Taddeo) debut memoir of an over-achieving young lawyer who reluctantly agrees to group therapy and gets psychologically and emotionally naked in a room of six complete strangers—and finds human connection, and herself.
Christie Tate had just been named the top student in her law school class and finally had her eating disorder under control. Why then was she driving through Chicago fantasizing about her own death? Why was she envisioning putting an end to the isolation and sadness that still plagued her despite her achievements?
Enter Dr. Rosen, a therapist who calmly assures her that if she joins one of his psychotherapy groups, he can transform her life. All she has to do is show up and be honest. About everything—her eating habits, childhood, sexual history, etc. Christie is skeptical, insisting that that she is defective, beyond cure. But Dr. Rosen issues a nine-word prescription that will change everything: "You don't need a cure. You need a witness."
So begins her entry into the strange, terrifying, and ultimately life-changing world of group therapy. Christie is initially put off by Dr. Rosen's outlandish directives, but as her defenses break down and she comes to trust Dr. Rosen and to depend on the sessions and the prescribed nightly phone calls with various group members, she begins to understand what it means to connect.
"Often hilarious, and ultimately very touching" (People), Group is "a wild ride" (The Boston Globe), and with Christie as our guide, we are given a front row seat to the daring, exhilarating, painful, and hilarious journey that is group therapy—an under-explored process that breaks you down, and then reassembles you so that all the pieces finally fit.
If you are having problem transferring a title to your device, please fill out this support form or visit the library so we can help you to use our eBooks and eAudio Books.
Christie Tate. (2020). Group: How One Therapist and a Circle of Strangers Saved My Life. Avid Reader Press / Simon & Schuster.
Chicago / Turabian - Author Date Citation (style guide)Christie Tate. 2020. Group: How One Therapist and a Circle of Strangers Saved My Life. Avid Reader Press / Simon & Schuster.
Chicago / Turabian - Humanities Citation (style guide)Christie Tate, Group: How One Therapist and a Circle of Strangers Saved My Life. Avid Reader Press / Simon & Schuster, 2020.
MLA Citation (style guide)Christie Tate. Group: How One Therapist and a Circle of Strangers Saved My Life. Avid Reader Press / Simon & Schuster, 2020.
| Library | Owned | Available |
|---|---|---|
| Shared Digital Collection | 2 | 1 |
There are 2 holds on this title.
OverDrive Product Record
- images
- cover:
- href: https://img1.od-cdn.com/ImageType-100/0439-1/{18780F0A-0116-4395-8B5F-9B51B9EA9BD9}IMG100.JPG
- type: image/jpeg
- thumbnail:
- href: https://img1.od-cdn.com/ImageType-200/0439-1/{18780F0A-0116-4395-8B5F-9B51B9EA9BD9}IMG200.JPG
- type: image/jpeg
- cover150Wide:
- href: https://img1.od-cdn.com/ImageType-150/0439-1/{18780F0A-0116-4395-8B5F-9B51B9EA9BD9}IMG150.JPG
- type: image/jpeg
- cover300Wide:
- href: https://img1.od-cdn.com/ImageType-400/0439-1/{18780F0A-0116-4395-8B5F-9B51B9EA9BD9}IMG400.JPG
- type: image/jpeg
- cover:
- formats
- identifiers:
- type: ISBN
- value: 9781982154639
- name: Adobe EPUB eBook
- id: ebook-epub-adobe
- identifiers:
- identifiers:
- type: ASIN
- value: B084GBBGHS
- name: Kindle Book
- id: ebook-kindle
- identifiers:
- identifiers:
- type: ISBN
- value: 9781982154639
- name: OverDrive Read
- id: ebook-overdrive
- identifiers:
- otherFormatIdentifiers
- type: ISBN
- value: 9781982154622
- mediaType
- eBook
- primaryCreator
- role: Author
- name: Christie Tate
- isOwnedByCollections
- False
- title
- Group: How One Therapist and a Circle of Strangers Saved My Life
- dateAdded
- 2020-12-02T23:36:00Z
- contentDetails
- href: https://link.overdrive.com/?websiteID=569&titleID=5274471
- type: text/html
- account:
- name: NorthNet Library System (CA)
- id: 2323
- sortTitle
- Group How One Therapist and a Circle of Strangers Saved My Life
- crossRefId
- 5274471
- id
- 18780F0A-0116-4395-8B5F-9B51B9EA9BD9
- starRating
- 3.9
OverDrive MetaData
- isPublicDomain
- False
- formats
- fileName: GroupHowOneTherapist_9781982154639_5274471
- partCount: 0
- fileSize: 2196099
- identifiers:
- type: ISBN
- value: 9781982154639
- rights:
- type: Copying
- value: 0
- type: Printing
- value: 0
- type: Lending
- value: 0
- type: ReadAloud
- value: 0
- type: ExpirationRights
- value: 0
- name: Adobe EPUB eBook
- isReadAlong: False
- id: ebook-epub-adobe
- onSaleDate: 10/27/2020
- samples:
- source: From the book
- formatType: ebook-overdrive
- url: https://samples.overdrive.com/?crid=18780f0a-0116-4395-8b5f-9b51b9ea9bd9&.epub-sample.overdrive.com
- fileName: GroupHowOneTherapist_5274471
- partCount: 0
- fileSize: 0
- identifiers:
- type: ASIN
- value: B084GBBGHS
- name: Kindle Book
- isReadAlong: False
- id: ebook-kindle
- onSaleDate: 10/27/2020
- samples:
- source: From the book
- formatType: ebook-overdrive
- url: https://samples.overdrive.com/?crid=18780f0a-0116-4395-8b5f-9b51b9ea9bd9&.epub-sample.overdrive.com
- fileName: GroupHowOneTherapist_9781982154639_5274471
- partCount: 0
- fileSize: 0
- identifiers:
- type: ISBN
- value: 9781982154639
- name: OverDrive Read
- isReadAlong: False
- id: ebook-overdrive
- onSaleDate: 10/27/2020
- samples:
- source: From the book
- formatType: ebook-overdrive
- url: https://samples.overdrive.com/?crid=18780f0a-0116-4395-8b5f-9b51b9ea9bd9&.epub-sample.overdrive.com
- keywords
- value: eating disorder
- value: relationships
- value: Shame
- value: loneliness
- value: new york times bestseller
- value: hilarious
- value: Anxiety
- value: sexuality
- value: bulimia
- value: work
- value: twelve step program
- value: therapist
- value: sex
- value: love
- value: workaholic
- value: Healing
- value: Isolation
- value: therapy
- value: trauma
- value: funny
- value: Sadness
- value: self-help
- value: humour
- value: connection
- value: attachment
- value: grief
- value: Touching
- value: blackout
- value: solidarity
- value: Group therapy
- value: depression
- value: Emotional
- value: vulnerability
- value: self-love
- value: candid
- value: romantic love
- value: jenny lawson
- value: self-judgement
- value: candor
- value: stephen grosz
- value: the examined life
- value: self-criticism
- value: best book of the year
- value: lori gottlieb
- value: Furiously Happy
- value: reese witherspoon book club
- value: sarah hepola
- value: amazon best books of the year
- value: maybe you should talk to someone
- value: Reese's Book Club Pick
- value: Christie Tate
- value: best book of 2020
- value: amazon best books of 2020
- value: amazon pick
- value: reese x hello sunshine book club pick
- value: the valedictorian of being dead
- creators
- role: Author
- fileAs: Tate, Christie
- bioText: Christie Tate is the author of the New York Times bestseller Group, which was a Reese's Book Club selection. She has been published in The New York Times, The Washington Post, Chicago Tribune, McSweeney's Internet Tendency, and elsewhere, and she lives in Chicago with her family.
- name: Christie Tate
- publishDate
- 2020-10-27T00:00:00-04:00
- isOwnedByCollections
- True
- title
- Group: How One Therapist and a Circle of Strangers Saved My Life
- fullDescription
- A REESE'S BOOK CLUB PICK * NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
The refreshingly original and "startlingly hopeful" (Lisa Taddeo) debut memoir of an over-achieving young lawyer who reluctantly agrees to group therapy and gets psychologically and emotionally naked in a room of six complete strangers—and finds human connection, and herself.
Christie Tate had just been named the top student in her law school class and finally had her eating disorder under control. Why then was she driving through Chicago fantasizing about her own death? Why was she envisioning putting an end to the isolation and sadness that still plagued her despite her achievements?
Enter Dr. Rosen, a therapist who calmly assures her that if she joins one of his psychotherapy groups, he can transform her life. All she has to do is show up and be honest. About everything—her eating habits, childhood, sexual history, etc. Christie is skeptical, insisting that that she is defective, beyond cure. But Dr. Rosen issues a nine-word prescription that will change everything: "You don't need a cure. You need a witness."
So begins her entry into the strange, terrifying, and ultimately life-changing world of group therapy. Christie is initially put off by Dr. Rosen's outlandish directives, but as her defenses break down and she comes to trust Dr. Rosen and to depend on the sessions and the prescribed nightly phone calls with various group members, she begins to understand what it means to connect.
"Often hilarious, and ultimately very touching" (People), Group is "a wild ride" (The Boston Globe), and with Christie as our guide, we are given a front row seat to the daring, exhilarating, painful, and hilarious journey that is group therapy—an under-explored process that breaks you down, and then reassembles you so that all the pieces finally fit. - reviews
- premium: True
- source:
- content:
Starred review from June 22, 2020
Tate delivers a no-holds-barred account of her five-plus years in group therapy in this dazzling debut memoir. Growing up in Texas, Tate suffered from bulimia; she entered law school and moved to Chicago, where she continued to confront her eating disorder and attended 12-step programs. At a friend’s suggestion, Tate agreed to see a therapist, and ended up in group therapy with Jonathan Rosen, a quirky but wise Harvard-educated therapist who insisted that his clients keep no secrets—neither from him nor the group (“keeping secrets from other people is more toxic than other people knowing your business,” he reasoned). Tate then unveils the intimate details of her romantic life; after graduating first in her law school class, Tate landed a job at a prestigious firm, though she was still dealing with a series of flawed romances (one boyfriend with intimacy issues habitually flipped her on her stomach for sex). Through therapy, Tate found a sense of self-worth, and eventually a lawyer named John at work (“I felt something I’d never felt with a man before: calm, quiet, happy, and excited”). Readers will be irresistibly drawn into Tate’s earnest and witty search for authentic and lasting love.
- premium: True
- source:
- content:
August 1, 2020
A young lawyer who wants to die enters group therapy to save her life. People who knew Tate probably didn't see her as the sort who hoped that "someone would shoot me in the head." Growing up in Texas, she excelled in school; at 26, she was first in her law school class. Yet she never fit in as an "oddball" who "voted Democratic, liked poetry, and settled north of the Mason-Dixon line" for a law career in Chicago. Her long struggle with bulimia--by fourth grade she had "been marinating in body hatred for a few years"--and the trauma from seeing a childhood friend's father drown during a holiday in Hawaii had sapped her confidence. At the suggestion of a friend, Tate signed up for group therapy with Dr. Rosen, a middle-aged man "slightly reminiscent of Einstein," who encouraged her to be open about every aspect of her life. This chatty memoir, punctuated with beautifully rendered sections, chronicles the years she spent in Chicago in Rosen's groups. Tate documents her alternately loving and confrontational encounters with fellow group members, but most of the book focuses on her many attempts to find the perfect man. Consequently, it often reads like a romance novel, with lines like, "When he pressed his perfect lips against mine, I swallowed starlight." Tate's sarcastic style can be entertaining--when Rosen told her not to use any three-syllable words to describe her feelings, she thought, "My top choice: adios"--but the narrative would have been stronger if the author more deeply explored the complexities of group therapy, body shame, loneliness, and more. Much of the writing is memorable, however, as when she describes one lover, a married man and recovering alcoholic, as "a category-six hurricane about to make landfall." Many readers will sympathize with Tate, especially in passages where she thinks she's finally found the right man only to have her heart broken yet again. A moving account of one woman's attempts to find love and stability.COPYRIGHT(2020) Kirkus Reviews, ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.
- premium: True
- source:
- content:
Starred review from October 1, 2020
Tate's debut memoir invites readers to sit alongside the author in one of the chairs circled for group therapy, and watch her struggle, fail, and very slowly learn. At 26, this law-school valedictorian and recovering bulimic fantasizes about her own death. Why? She eats apples. Obsessively?as many as eight per night?and painfully: the sharp edges of the apple bits I'd failed to chew properly poked the edges of my stomach. Acid burned my throat." A source of deep shame, Tate's apples keep her roommate-less and alone. Desperate, she takes a friend's recommendation to see a therapist, Dr. Rosen, who recommends group therapy. Rosen's tactics surprise and bedevil Tate. The expected goal?stop eating apples?is bypassed for a harder one: speak openly and honestly about eating apples. In therapy, Tate learns that secrets are toxic, and applies that lesson to her writing. Essential to Tate's project is authorial ethos, and she maintains credibility by writing the bad, the ugly, and the badly ugly through years of painful relationships and despair. Her writing displays a wonderful combination of clear and simple with sparkle and intelligence. This memoir's accomplishment is impressively dualistic: it's a compelling narrative that empowers readers to better understand their own lives.(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2020, American Library Association.)
- popularity
- 2694
- links
- self:
- href: https://api.overdrive.com/v1/collections/v1L1BWwAAAA2I/products/18780f0a-0116-4395-8b5f-9b51b9ea9bd9/metadata
- type: application/vnd.overdrive.api+json
- self:
- id
- 18780f0a-0116-4395-8b5f-9b51b9ea9bd9
- starRating
- 3.9
- images
- cover:
- href: https://img1.od-cdn.com/ImageType-100/0439-1/{18780F0A-0116-4395-8B5F-9B51B9EA9BD9}IMG100.JPG
- type: image/jpeg
- thumbnail:
- href: https://img1.od-cdn.com/ImageType-200/0439-1/{18780F0A-0116-4395-8B5F-9B51B9EA9BD9}IMG200.JPG
- type: image/jpeg
- cover150Wide:
- href: https://img1.od-cdn.com/ImageType-150/0439-1/{18780F0A-0116-4395-8B5F-9B51B9EA9BD9}IMG150.JPG
- type: image/jpeg
- cover300Wide:
- href: https://img1.od-cdn.com/ImageType-400/0439-1/{18780F0A-0116-4395-8B5F-9B51B9EA9BD9}IMG400.JPG
- type: image/jpeg
- cover:
- isPublicPerformanceAllowed
- False
- languages
- code: en
- name: English
- subjects
- value: Biography & Autobiography
- value: Family & Relationships
- value: Psychology
- value: Nonfiction
- publishDateText
- 10/27/2020
- otherFormatIdentifiers
- type: ISBN
- value: 9781982154622
- mediaType
- eBook
- shortDescription
- A REESE'S BOOK CLUB PICK * NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER
The refreshingly original and "startlingly hopeful" (Lisa Taddeo) debut memoir of an over-achieving young lawyer who reluctantly agrees to group therapy and gets psychologically and emotionally naked in a room of six complete strangers—and finds human connection, and herself.
Christie Tate had just been named the top student in her law school class and finally had her eating disorder under control. Why then was she driving through Chicago fantasizing about her own death? Why was she envisioning putting an end to the isolation and sadness that still plagued her despite her achievements?
Enter Dr. Rosen, a therapist who calmly assures her that if she joins one of his psychotherapy groups, he can transform her life. All she has to do is show up and be honest. About everything—her eating habits, childhood, sexual history, etc. Christie is skeptical, insisting that that she is... - sortTitle
- Group How One Therapist and a Circle of Strangers Saved My Life
- crossRefId
- 5274471
- publisher
- Avid Reader Press / Simon & Schuster
- bisacCodes
- code: BIO026000
- description: BIOGRAPHY & AUTOBIOGRAPHY / Memoirs
- code: FAM029000
- description: Family & Relationships / Love & Romance
- code: PSY017000
- description: Psychology / Interpersonal Relations
