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You're not listening: what you're missing and why it matters

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""An essential book for our times. How well we listen determines how we love, learn, and connect with one another, and in this moment when we need to hear and be heard more than ever, this thought-provoking and engaging book shows us how." -Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone At work, we're taught to lead the conversation. On social media, we shape our personal narratives. At parties, we talk over one another. So do our politicians. We're not listening. And no one is listening to us. Despite living in a world where technology allows constant digital communication and opportunities to connect, it seems no one is really listening or even knows how. And it's making us lonelier, more isolated, and less tolerant than ever before. A listener by trade, New York Times contributor Kate Murphy wanted to know how we got here. In this always illuminating and often humorous deep dive, Murphy explains why we're not listening, what it's doing to us, and how we can reverse the trend. She makes accessible the psychology, neuroscience, and sociology of listening while also introducing us to some of the best listeners out there (including a CIA agent, focus group moderator, bartender, radio producer, and top furniture salesman). Equal parts cutting expose, rousing call to action, and practical advice, You're Not Listening is to listening what Susan Cain's Quiet was to introversion. It's time to stop talking and start listening"--
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subject_facetAudiobooks
Interpersonal communication
Listening
title_displayYou're not listening : what you're missing and why it matters
title_fullYou're Not Listening What You're Missing and Why It Matters
You're not listening : what you're missing and why it matters / Kate Murphy
You're not listening : what you're missing and why it matters / Kate Murphy ; read by the author
You're not listening : what you're missing and why it matters [electronic resource] / Kate Murphy
title_shortYou're not listening
title_subwhat you're missing and why it matters
topic_facetInterpersonal communication
Listening
Nonfiction
Psychology
Self Help
Sociology